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4 Responses to “Need a little insight on this one?”
Poor girl. I understand how you feel. I’m also in the closet and bi.
You feel bad because you pretty much got rejected, but it’s not your fault. Remember that!
From reading, it seems like she was confused about her sexuality maybe. Maybe she can’t accept that she might be bi/gay as well, and maybe it’s all new to her.
When I realized I was, it was like a smack in the face for me, but then I began accepting it.
However, she could have been drunk. I wasn’t there, I don’t know, sorry.
I wouldn’t dwell on it because you can’t change the past; only the future. I wouldn’t feel bad because of what happened.
There are things you could’ve done, should’ve done, and shouldnt’ve done, but you can’t change that now. So, if you’re really feeling bad, try thinking of how you can fix this. Or, move on if you’re done.
Sounds like you did the sensible thing to me, and you handled it tactfully and with common sense.
Sometimes we all should know when to just let go and people like me find that really hard and end up getting hurt for nothing.
Don’t feel bad in my opinion you did the right thing.
i think you handled it very maturely and did the right thing, if it is too difficult to maintain the lessons then it is right to stay away and there is no point putting yourself into a situation where your gonna be unfomfortable. Dont worry honey we all have crushes you will in time get over her but you did good wouldnt it make life easier if all girls were *** ha ha
You absolutely did the right thing. If everybody out there handles it this way we may be okay.
The only thing I’d advise is not to stop attend the aerobics. I mean her classes. You have been able to speak up for yourself and assumed how you feel you should be okay with it and act like it won’t be a matter for you even if it is.
I really suggest you to be confident. You have no reason for not to be.
November 25th, 2008 at 8:26 pm
jaor
Poor girl. I understand how you feel. I’m also in the closet and bi.
You feel bad because you pretty much got rejected, but it’s not your fault. Remember that!
From reading, it seems like she was confused about her sexuality maybe. Maybe she can’t accept that she might be bi/gay as well, and maybe it’s all new to her.
When I realized I was, it was like a smack in the face for me, but then I began accepting it.
However, she could have been drunk. I wasn’t there, I don’t know, sorry.
I wouldn’t dwell on it because you can’t change the past; only the future. I wouldn’t feel bad because of what happened.
There are things you could’ve done, should’ve done, and shouldnt’ve done, but you can’t change that now. So, if you’re really feeling bad, try thinking of how you can fix this. Or, move on if you’re done.
Good luck~
November 29th, 2008 at 2:47 am
lufree
Sounds like you did the sensible thing to me, and you handled it tactfully and with common sense.
Sometimes we all should know when to just let go and people like me find that really hard and end up getting hurt for nothing.
Don’t feel bad in my opinion you did the right thing.
December 2nd, 2008 at 12:44 am
victoria
i think you handled it very maturely and did the right thing, if it is too difficult to maintain the lessons then it is right to stay away and there is no point putting yourself into a situation where your gonna be unfomfortable. Dont worry honey we all have crushes you will in time get over her but you did good
wouldnt it make life easier if all girls were *** ha ha
December 4th, 2008 at 4:34 am
david
You absolutely did the right thing. If everybody out there handles it this way we may be okay.
The only thing I’d advise is not to stop attend the aerobics. I mean her classes. You have been able to speak up for yourself and assumed how you feel you should be okay with it and act like it won’t be a matter for you even if it is.
I really suggest you to be confident. You have no reason for not to be.